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As you have come direct from a google search, I just wanted to say that you have done the hardest bit (seriously, well done) and I hope that you will carry on reading.
I am sure you have lots of questions about seeking help with your relationship so I have had a go at answering a few below
Can the Mind Mechanics really help?
The answer is yes; I can help your relationship. I will treat your relationship as the client and so I don't take sides and work towards rebuilding and making the relationship strong. Working with couples is about listening and helping each other to bridge the gap between the two of you. No matter what the problem is, I can help.
What happens first?
You book a free 30-minute session for free, it can be online or on the phone and we talk through what the issues are and why you are looking to get out of therapy (or counselling – they are the same thing). I will listen to both sides and give you support.
At the end I will ask if you want to book another session and if you agree we will look at a plan on what we are going to look at; the whole process is with your consent and your pace, but we will find change for you.
How to deal with problems with sex?
This can be a really difficult area for some people and I am expert at helping couples to be able to talk about their sexual problems. It is about being honest and safe enough that you can talk about your feelings and fears. I will help you both through this process and go at your pace so you don't feel pressurised.
How does the process work?
So, you two will talk and I listen and help you to uncover how and why your relationship has changed. It might be obvious or it might be a complete mystery but we will find out what is going on for you two. Over 95% of what we do is instinctive and so for that 95% we don’t really have any decisions or control and that includes behaviours – the key is to find out why you do what you do and why do feel the way you feel. All the time my focus will be on the relationship.
Quite quickly our relationship will grow trust and the ability for you to say things out loud that you have never said to another human and with the knowledge and growing confidence that what we talk about will stay confidential.
How long will it take?
It is an excellent question and the one question I can’t answer with any honesty – I don’t know. It could be three sessions it could be years, but each session will be focused on you and the results you want. Most people have change within six sessions that allows them to get on with their lives.
How much does it cost?
£65 a session (which last just over 50 minutes). It is paid for in advance via my website – no faffing and it is very easy to do.
I prefer face-to-face, is that a problem?
I prefer face-to-face, is that a problem? Not at all. I have a counselling room in a small business park just outside of Evesham in Offenham. It is quite and there is lots of free parking and because there are lots of businesses nobody knows where you are going. We also offer online if that is easier.
What does the room look like?
Quiet, warm and comfortable and a nice big sofa.
We have some more questions
No problem, at the bottom of these page is let's chat button just leave a message and I will comeback to you or click the link on our emails below. We want you to be happy and get as much information as you need, so ask away.
What's next?
Below this is a link to the booking form for the free 30-minute session. We ask for a few details and you will be sent a link automatically to the online session (don't worry if you want a phone call) and a confirmation of the booking. I look forward to speaking with you shortly.
